"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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baggy clothes cool?

Not Quite There

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Originally posted by TxCowboy
The best way to go , is to take the g/f or just a friend thats a girl and have her pick stuff out that matches you - works every time for me.

no offense, but getting girls to dress you is lame.

maybe, I am just blessed with a good dress sense, but i wouldn't let someone else decide what i was gonna wear.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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S0LID

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i think the odd band tshirt looks cool, depends on the fit. It all comes down to your body (upper and lower). Look how well the tshirts looked on brad pitt in fight club.
 

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Excuse me were did i say shorts stop you from getting girls. Im talking about style if you want to have style and class you stay away from shorts/fluro colours ect.

Girls for the most part (the girls I want to attract anyway) are somewhat more attracted to classier guys so in a sense if you dress classier i.e. no shorts it would help your game.

The majority of attractive successful girls go for guys with class so if these are the girls you are planning to attract then follow my rules. Think James Bond.

Classier clothes help your game end of story.
 

DJ_in_making

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Excuse me were did i say shorts stop you from getting girls. Im talking about style if you want to have style and class you stay away from shorts/fluro colours ect.

Girls for the most part (the girls I want to attract anyway) are somewhat more attracted to classier guys so in a sense if you dress classier i.e. no shorts it would help your game.

The majority of attractive successful girls go for guys with class so if these are the girls you are planning to attract then follow my rules. Think James Bond.

Classier clothes help your game end of story.
ok, i get ya, it sounded like you were saying to be successful, you must not wear shorts around girls at all...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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gimmeyofonenumba

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hmm... this has got me thinking. I have a real wierd sense of style. Sometimes i dress with black jean shorts and a brown shirt with a band name on it, thats what i usually wear to school, now when i go out i usually wear a plain white/blue/ shirt( i have some collared, and some are just t shirts) i feel comfortable in it, and sure as hell feel confident. But iam not too succesfull. Should i bother chaning?
 

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I can go for days about all this but personally, I dispise all those Tall Tee wearing dudes just 'cos there was a song about it and stuff

whatever happens - do not buy a white tee for $1.75

Common said it's best on BE - "Rappers and hoopers, we strive to be like"

I hate when people look up to Rappers and athletes and do what "they" wear.

just 'cos Lil' Jon is wearing a jersey down to his ankles and is considered "cool rapper" doesn't mean you will look just as "cool" as him

get your own style, LOOK at the Mirror before you leave and turn off the Hip-Hop shows, that's something to listen to, not watch
 
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