"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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baggy clothes cool?

Not Quite There

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Originally posted by TxCowboy
The best way to go , is to take the g/f or just a friend thats a girl and have her pick stuff out that matches you - works every time for me.

no offense, but getting girls to dress you is lame.

maybe, I am just blessed with a good dress sense, but i wouldn't let someone else decide what i was gonna wear.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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S0LID

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i think the odd band tshirt looks cool, depends on the fit. It all comes down to your body (upper and lower). Look how well the tshirts looked on brad pitt in fight club.
 

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Excuse me were did i say shorts stop you from getting girls. Im talking about style if you want to have style and class you stay away from shorts/fluro colours ect.

Girls for the most part (the girls I want to attract anyway) are somewhat more attracted to classier guys so in a sense if you dress classier i.e. no shorts it would help your game.

The majority of attractive successful girls go for guys with class so if these are the girls you are planning to attract then follow my rules. Think James Bond.

Classier clothes help your game end of story.
 

DJ_in_making

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Excuse me were did i say shorts stop you from getting girls. Im talking about style if you want to have style and class you stay away from shorts/fluro colours ect.

Girls for the most part (the girls I want to attract anyway) are somewhat more attracted to classier guys so in a sense if you dress classier i.e. no shorts it would help your game.

The majority of attractive successful girls go for guys with class so if these are the girls you are planning to attract then follow my rules. Think James Bond.

Classier clothes help your game end of story.
ok, i get ya, it sounded like you were saying to be successful, you must not wear shorts around girls at all...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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gimmeyofonenumba

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hmm... this has got me thinking. I have a real wierd sense of style. Sometimes i dress with black jean shorts and a brown shirt with a band name on it, thats what i usually wear to school, now when i go out i usually wear a plain white/blue/ shirt( i have some collared, and some are just t shirts) i feel comfortable in it, and sure as hell feel confident. But iam not too succesfull. Should i bother chaning?
 

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I can go for days about all this but personally, I dispise all those Tall Tee wearing dudes just 'cos there was a song about it and stuff

whatever happens - do not buy a white tee for $1.75

Common said it's best on BE - "Rappers and hoopers, we strive to be like"

I hate when people look up to Rappers and athletes and do what "they" wear.

just 'cos Lil' Jon is wearing a jersey down to his ankles and is considered "cool rapper" doesn't mean you will look just as "cool" as him

get your own style, LOOK at the Mirror before you leave and turn off the Hip-Hop shows, that's something to listen to, not watch
 
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