Ok so theres this girl who contacted me on myspace a few weeks ago-she said her friend pointed me out to her one day at school. And she started sended me stuff about how my car's so bad ass and that shes seen me riding around town n all. And we've set a few dates but I didn't really feel like going out with her so I bascially cancelled by saying I had to work in stuff. Well turns out she lives down the street from my friend. So today me n my friends decided to stop by and when we got there she and this other guy came out of their garage when we pulled in the driveway. I was like what the hell. Anyways my friend knows the guy and we jus stood outside talkin for a while. She didn't say much to me and I didn't say much to her. BTW she was wearing these short ass shorts and was lookin good. They're not going out but I dunno if I should still go out with her. I dodn't like the idea of her hanging out with other guys. Any input would be appreciated.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Bad sign??
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i'd say if shes that interested in u...just don't give her much attention and she'll come back and start talkin to you if shes that into you still..ThatDude said:Come on, she cant be waiting for you forever, right?
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Even though you are not interested in her, I suggest you go out with her. Just have fun. Get more experience.twotyme said:
Maybe you'll regret that you did not go out with her, if you find out that she's got lots of friends. Then, you may be realizing that your social circumference could have gone through a major expansion, and that you missed the opportunity to meet lots of new people who could extend your social circumference even more. And so on.
If you go out with her, what regrets could you experience in the future? I would say not too many.
I'd say you've got nothing to lose.
shydude
Master Don Juan
Well u said u dont like her with being w9ith others guys!!! how would u fell if she would like u being with other girls!! DUDE welcome to the real world!!1 GUys hang out with girls.. girls hang out with guys!!! Thats nature.. And try not to be jelious if other guys spanks her in the ass or something!!
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Nzo
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Ya what shydude said, gettin all uptight because you saw her with another guy is AFC behavior.
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Not even with her yet and already afraid of losing her. Way to go!twotyme said: