Ok so theres this girl who contacted me on myspace a few weeks ago-she said her friend pointed me out to her one day at school. And she started sended me stuff about how my car's so bad ass and that shes seen me riding around town n all. And we've set a few dates but I didn't really feel like going out with her so I bascially cancelled by saying I had to work in stuff. Well turns out she lives down the street from my friend. So today me n my friends decided to stop by and when we got there she and this other guy came out of their garage when we pulled in the driveway. I was like what the hell. Anyways my friend knows the guy and we jus stood outside talkin for a while. She didn't say much to me and I didn't say much to her. BTW she was wearing these short ass shorts and was lookin good. They're not going out but I dunno if I should still go out with her. I dodn't like the idea of her hanging out with other guys. Any input would be appreciated.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
i'd say if shes that interested in u...just don't give her much attention and she'll come back and start talkin to you if shes that into you still..ThatDude said:Come on, she cant be waiting for you forever, right?
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Even though you are not interested in her, I suggest you go out with her. Just have fun. Get more experience.twotyme said:
Maybe you'll regret that you did not go out with her, if you find out that she's got lots of friends. Then, you may be realizing that your social circumference could have gone through a major expansion, and that you missed the opportunity to meet lots of new people who could extend your social circumference even more. And so on.
If you go out with her, what regrets could you experience in the future? I would say not too many.
I'd say you've got nothing to lose.
shydude
Master Don Juan
Well u said u dont like her with being w9ith others guys!!! how would u fell if she would like u being with other girls!! DUDE welcome to the real world!!1 GUys hang out with girls.. girls hang out with guys!!! Thats nature.. And try not to be jelious if other guys spanks her in the ass or something!!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Nzo
Don Juan
Ya what shydude said, gettin all uptight because you saw her with another guy is AFC behavior.
S1NN3R
Master Don Juan
Not even with her yet and already afraid of losing her. Way to go!twotyme said: