Ok so theres this girl who contacted me on myspace a few weeks ago-she said her friend pointed me out to her one day at school. And she started sended me stuff about how my car's so bad ass and that shes seen me riding around town n all. And we've set a few dates but I didn't really feel like going out with her so I bascially cancelled by saying I had to work in stuff. Well turns out she lives down the street from my friend. So today me n my friends decided to stop by and when we got there she and this other guy came out of their garage when we pulled in the driveway. I was like what the hell. Anyways my friend knows the guy and we jus stood outside talkin for a while. She didn't say much to me and I didn't say much to her. BTW she was wearing these short ass shorts and was lookin good. They're not going out but I dunno if I should still go out with her. I dodn't like the idea of her hanging out with other guys. Any input would be appreciated.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Bad sign??
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
i'd say if shes that interested in u...just don't give her much attention and she'll come back and start talkin to you if shes that into you still..ThatDude said:Come on, she cant be waiting for you forever, right?
gl man
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Even though you are not interested in her, I suggest you go out with her. Just have fun. Get more experience.twotyme said:
Maybe you'll regret that you did not go out with her, if you find out that she's got lots of friends. Then, you may be realizing that your social circumference could have gone through a major expansion, and that you missed the opportunity to meet lots of new people who could extend your social circumference even more. And so on.
If you go out with her, what regrets could you experience in the future? I would say not too many.
I'd say you've got nothing to lose.
shydude
Master Don Juan
Well u said u dont like her with being w9ith others guys!!! how would u fell if she would like u being with other girls!! DUDE welcome to the real world!!1 GUys hang out with girls.. girls hang out with guys!!! Thats nature.. And try not to be jelious if other guys spanks her in the ass or something!!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Nzo
Don Juan
Ya what shydude said, gettin all uptight because you saw her with another guy is AFC behavior.
S1NN3R
Master Don Juan
Not even with her yet and already afraid of losing her. Way to go!twotyme said: