Ok so theres this girl who contacted me on myspace a few weeks ago-she said her friend pointed me out to her one day at school. And she started sended me stuff about how my car's so bad ass and that shes seen me riding around town n all. And we've set a few dates but I didn't really feel like going out with her so I bascially cancelled by saying I had to work in stuff. Well turns out she lives down the street from my friend. So today me n my friends decided to stop by and when we got there she and this other guy came out of their garage when we pulled in the driveway. I was like what the hell. Anyways my friend knows the guy and we jus stood outside talkin for a while. She didn't say much to me and I didn't say much to her. BTW she was wearing these short ass shorts and was lookin good. They're not going out but I dunno if I should still go out with her. I dodn't like the idea of her hanging out with other guys. Any input would be appreciated.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bad sign??
- Thread starter twotyme
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
i'd say if shes that interested in u...just don't give her much attention and she'll come back and start talkin to you if shes that into you still..ThatDude said:Come on, she cant be waiting for you forever, right?
gl man
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Even though you are not interested in her, I suggest you go out with her. Just have fun. Get more experience.twotyme said:
Maybe you'll regret that you did not go out with her, if you find out that she's got lots of friends. Then, you may be realizing that your social circumference could have gone through a major expansion, and that you missed the opportunity to meet lots of new people who could extend your social circumference even more. And so on.
If you go out with her, what regrets could you experience in the future? I would say not too many.
I'd say you've got nothing to lose.
shydude
Master Don Juan
Well u said u dont like her with being w9ith others guys!!! how would u fell if she would like u being with other girls!! DUDE welcome to the real world!!1 GUys hang out with girls.. girls hang out with guys!!! Thats nature.. And try not to be jelious if other guys spanks her in the ass or something!!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Nzo
Don Juan
Ya what shydude said, gettin all uptight because you saw her with another guy is AFC behavior.
S1NN3R
Master Don Juan
Not even with her yet and already afraid of losing her. Way to go!twotyme said: