"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bad luck with g/f...I'm confused

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Hi. My girlfriend, Jan, is going through problems right now. I have been with her for a year and a half. She is type 3 out of 5 bipolar, and her family is messed up. I would like to end the relationship, but I'm don't think I will be able to stand thinking she will be with other guys...or girls :rolleyes:. I think it might get better. I want to hang in there but she drives me crazy at times, and she is great at times as well. She should be getting better with it, at least I hope. And my social skills have dropped below the line, but that's another story.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If she ain't helping you get rid of her.
 
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BI polar.... = BYE BYE
 
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Here's a good way you can move on from her and not really give a damn about who she's fvcking...

Find a new chick behind her back and when you are certain the new chick is yours to keep and drives you wild in her own right ditch your bipolar baggage.

Problem solved.
 
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KontrollerX: That's a good idea. I'm going to try that.

Thanks for all the replies.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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