"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bad luck with g/f...I'm confused

xenten

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Hi. My girlfriend, Jan, is going through problems right now. I have been with her for a year and a half. She is type 3 out of 5 bipolar, and her family is messed up. I would like to end the relationship, but I'm don't think I will be able to stand thinking she will be with other guys...or girls :rolleyes:. I think it might get better. I want to hang in there but she drives me crazy at times, and she is great at times as well. She should be getting better with it, at least I hope. And my social skills have dropped below the line, but that's another story.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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If she ain't helping you get rid of her.
 

Potbelly

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BI polar.... = BYE BYE
 

KontrollerX

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Here's a good way you can move on from her and not really give a damn about who she's fvcking...

Find a new chick behind her back and when you are certain the new chick is yours to keep and drives you wild in her own right ditch your bipolar baggage.

Problem solved.
 

xenten

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KontrollerX: That's a good idea. I'm going to try that.

Thanks for all the replies.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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