"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bad luck with g/f...I'm confused

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xenten

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Hi. My girlfriend, Jan, is going through problems right now. I have been with her for a year and a half. She is type 3 out of 5 bipolar, and her family is messed up. I would like to end the relationship, but I'm don't think I will be able to stand thinking she will be with other guys...or girls :rolleyes:. I think it might get better. I want to hang in there but she drives me crazy at times, and she is great at times as well. She should be getting better with it, at least I hope. And my social skills have dropped below the line, but that's another story.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If she ain't helping you get rid of her.
 
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BI polar.... = BYE BYE
 
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Here's a good way you can move on from her and not really give a damn about who she's fvcking...

Find a new chick behind her back and when you are certain the new chick is yours to keep and drives you wild in her own right ditch your bipolar baggage.

Problem solved.
 
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KontrollerX: That's a good idea. I'm going to try that.

Thanks for all the replies.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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