"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bad luck with g/f...I'm confused

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xenten

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Hi. My girlfriend, Jan, is going through problems right now. I have been with her for a year and a half. She is type 3 out of 5 bipolar, and her family is messed up. I would like to end the relationship, but I'm don't think I will be able to stand thinking she will be with other guys...or girls :rolleyes:. I think it might get better. I want to hang in there but she drives me crazy at times, and she is great at times as well. She should be getting better with it, at least I hope. And my social skills have dropped below the line, but that's another story.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If she ain't helping you get rid of her.
 
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BI polar.... = BYE BYE
 
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Here's a good way you can move on from her and not really give a damn about who she's fvcking...

Find a new chick behind her back and when you are certain the new chick is yours to keep and drives you wild in her own right ditch your bipolar baggage.

Problem solved.
 
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KontrollerX: That's a good idea. I'm going to try that.

Thanks for all the replies.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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