"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bad luck with g/f...I'm confused

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Hi. My girlfriend, Jan, is going through problems right now. I have been with her for a year and a half. She is type 3 out of 5 bipolar, and her family is messed up. I would like to end the relationship, but I'm don't think I will be able to stand thinking she will be with other guys...or girls :rolleyes:. I think it might get better. I want to hang in there but she drives me crazy at times, and she is great at times as well. She should be getting better with it, at least I hope. And my social skills have dropped below the line, but that's another story.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If she ain't helping you get rid of her.
 
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BI polar.... = BYE BYE
 
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Here's a good way you can move on from her and not really give a damn about who she's fvcking...

Find a new chick behind her back and when you are certain the new chick is yours to keep and drives you wild in her own right ditch your bipolar baggage.

Problem solved.
 
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KontrollerX: That's a good idea. I'm going to try that.

Thanks for all the replies.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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