"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Bad form to ask a girl out right away?

nicksaiz65

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So say you’re talking to a girl you just met and you’ve got a good rapport going. Is it bad to ask her out right away? As in right before you leave “Ay we should go get coffee sometime, what’s your Snap?” Or should you just get her Snap and ask her out after talking to her for like a week?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So say you’re talking to a girl you just met and you’ve got a good rapport going. Is it bad to ask her out right away? As in right before you leave “Ay we should go get coffee sometime, what’s your Snap?” Or should you just get her Snap and ask her out after talking to her for like a week?
Fvck no, strike while the iron is hot.

When you feel confident enough, go for insta dates
 

Billtx49

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Ditto, you should have hit her up for a date while you had the rapport going.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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marmel75

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So say you’re talking to a girl you just met and you’ve got a good rapport going. Is it bad to ask her out right away? As in right before you leave “Ay we should go get coffee sometime, what’s your Snap?” Or should you just get her Snap and ask her out after talking to her for like a week?
Ask her out for a coffee on the spot and go on an instadate.

Personally I would rather be tortured to death than use Snapchat
 

nicksaiz65

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Ask her out for a coffee on the spot and go on an instadate.

Personally I would rather be tortured to death than use Snapchat
Big mood haha. Pretty much everyone uses Snap these days though so it’s impossible to get around it imho
 

RangerMIke

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If I know a chick is really interested I always ask them out on the spot. I want to know as soon as possible if they are in or not because I do not like to waste time. If I'm not sure or if I like her but I'm not getting any IOI back from her, I'll ask for her number and call her later. Then see if she answers, will go out, and actually shows up. Some chicks are hard to read.

The key is to do what you want... if you want to ask her out, ask her out.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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