"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bad Breath

st_99

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check for it.

most people don't know they have it. and most others wont say
anything as not to embarrass you.

sometimes a problem can be that simple. :up:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TonyBaloney

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Ask your ma if you have bad breath - or a dr. Simple, but it works

ps, i'm mucking around with a MILF at the mo. Darn hot as coal she is, but we wake up in the morning and her breath smells like a compost heap; what should I do?
 

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I can't emphasize how important this is.
If you do have it and don't know, could be a reason a girl didn't take your calls.

and if you do, I highly recommend the Dr Katz line. Therabreath toothpaste and mouth rinse.

I used to have halitosis, ($hit breath) haven't had it in years thanks to this product.

one of the reasons I dropped a recent plate...she had terrible breath upstairs and downstairs.
 

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For starters don't drink coffee: I've never met a coffee drinker who didn't have bad breath.
 

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Coffee is terrible, I agree.

Here are some tips:

- Brush teeth AND TONGUE.

- Eat yogurt before bed, allowing it to linger in and around mouth. (Google it if you don't believe me.)

- To test yourself, pinch your cheeks and pull them away from your teeth and suck in some air. If your breath is off you'll be able to smell it this way.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SgtSplacker

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I always go the set the example route, like that she will feel kinda obligated to clean up and I don't have to call her out on anything...

"ugh my teeth must be rank I haven't brushed since the morning!"

"I always have to shower after work, get that work funk off, I feel so fresh now!!!!"
 

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Go to the dentist as regularly as well. I just went for the first time in 18 months or so. I also bought some scope yesterday. The brushing and flossing is no problem for me.
 

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You can lick your wrist, wait ten seconds, then smell it.

If it smells bad you probably have bad breath.
 

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Bad breath starts in the stomach.

To cure bad breath you want to eat lots of green foods, citrus foods and (plain) yogurt (with no aspartame). Spirulina tablets are probably the best cure. Also, brush your tongue and gums.

Chewing fennel seeds is a natural breath freshener.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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pdx1138

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I always have a pack of very strong mint gum in my car just in case.

Regardless of breath status, I always chew one before meeting up women.
 
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