"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bad Breath

st_99

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check for it.

most people don't know they have it. and most others wont say
anything as not to embarrass you.

sometimes a problem can be that simple. :up:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TonyBaloney

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Ask your ma if you have bad breath - or a dr. Simple, but it works

ps, i'm mucking around with a MILF at the mo. Darn hot as coal she is, but we wake up in the morning and her breath smells like a compost heap; what should I do?
 

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I can't emphasize how important this is.
If you do have it and don't know, could be a reason a girl didn't take your calls.

and if you do, I highly recommend the Dr Katz line. Therabreath toothpaste and mouth rinse.

I used to have halitosis, ($hit breath) haven't had it in years thanks to this product.

one of the reasons I dropped a recent plate...she had terrible breath upstairs and downstairs.
 

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For starters don't drink coffee: I've never met a coffee drinker who didn't have bad breath.
 

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Coffee is terrible, I agree.

Here are some tips:

- Brush teeth AND TONGUE.

- Eat yogurt before bed, allowing it to linger in and around mouth. (Google it if you don't believe me.)

- To test yourself, pinch your cheeks and pull them away from your teeth and suck in some air. If your breath is off you'll be able to smell it this way.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SgtSplacker

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I always go the set the example route, like that she will feel kinda obligated to clean up and I don't have to call her out on anything...

"ugh my teeth must be rank I haven't brushed since the morning!"

"I always have to shower after work, get that work funk off, I feel so fresh now!!!!"
 

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Go to the dentist as regularly as well. I just went for the first time in 18 months or so. I also bought some scope yesterday. The brushing and flossing is no problem for me.
 

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You can lick your wrist, wait ten seconds, then smell it.

If it smells bad you probably have bad breath.
 

bigneil

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Bad breath starts in the stomach.

To cure bad breath you want to eat lots of green foods, citrus foods and (plain) yogurt (with no aspartame). Spirulina tablets are probably the best cure. Also, brush your tongue and gums.

Chewing fennel seeds is a natural breath freshener.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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pdx1138

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I always have a pack of very strong mint gum in my car just in case.

Regardless of breath status, I always chew one before meeting up women.
 
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