"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bad boy tactics???

Thechamp

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women love bad boys *******s etc so have you guys got any tactics to be a ******* jerk or a bad boy?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think I have become too bad... In that I am an actual jerk. I love to just toy with b!tches now and get them all wound up so it may be hurting my game as I have gone to the other extreme where women are starting to become averse to or even afraid of me. But you are right that having a little bad boy in you does make you more successful.

Anyway, first adopt the look and posturing of a bad boy. A bad boy expresses dominance and has a "I do not give a fvck" attitude. As for the look... You want to look very masculine. You can look masculine in jeans and a leather jacket, or even a suit. No skinny jeans, no shiny club shirts, nothing that can appear feminine in any way... But do not overo it and look like some kind of thug.
Then comes the posturing... This may be harder to achieve. You must be confident and fearless. Watch this video about "alpha male posturing". It covers everything very well and you should be able to get an idea about posturing from it. Pay attention to the people in the episode who are fixing the car...
You also must remember to put yourself first and to not give a fvck. Do not show softness, do not talk about feelings, none of that BS. Before I talk to women I often imagine myself fvcking or humiliating them, it gets me in to a more aggressive state. Do not submit to the female, and always make sure you are dominant and do not be afraid to toss a b!tch aside if necessary.
 

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Women don't like bad boys. They like men that just don't give a ****. Bad boys usually have that part built-in. It is fully possible to be a gentleman and respectful, yet have your pick of women begging for your attention. Stop seeking validation from others.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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zekko

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It's not a tactic, it's an attitude. It's believing that you are of higher value than she is and that you will get what you want and make her work hard for what she wants rather than the reverse/
That's not being a bad boy or a jerk though, that's having a masculine frame and attitude.
 

marmel75

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That's not being a bad boy or a jerk though, that's having a masculine frame and attitude.
I suppose, but that leads to what WOULD be considered bad boy things like sexually escalating without a care as to what she thinks
 

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Nice guys trying to act bad comes off like Gene Wilder trying to act like Richard Pryor.

 
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