"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bad boy tactics???

Thechamp

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women love bad boys *******s etc so have you guys got any tactics to be a ******* jerk or a bad boy?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think I have become too bad... In that I am an actual jerk. I love to just toy with b!tches now and get them all wound up so it may be hurting my game as I have gone to the other extreme where women are starting to become averse to or even afraid of me. But you are right that having a little bad boy in you does make you more successful.

Anyway, first adopt the look and posturing of a bad boy. A bad boy expresses dominance and has a "I do not give a fvck" attitude. As for the look... You want to look very masculine. You can look masculine in jeans and a leather jacket, or even a suit. No skinny jeans, no shiny club shirts, nothing that can appear feminine in any way... But do not overo it and look like some kind of thug.
Then comes the posturing... This may be harder to achieve. You must be confident and fearless. Watch this video about "alpha male posturing". It covers everything very well and you should be able to get an idea about posturing from it. Pay attention to the people in the episode who are fixing the car...
You also must remember to put yourself first and to not give a fvck. Do not show softness, do not talk about feelings, none of that BS. Before I talk to women I often imagine myself fvcking or humiliating them, it gets me in to a more aggressive state. Do not submit to the female, and always make sure you are dominant and do not be afraid to toss a b!tch aside if necessary.
 

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Women don't like bad boys. They like men that just don't give a ****. Bad boys usually have that part built-in. It is fully possible to be a gentleman and respectful, yet have your pick of women begging for your attention. Stop seeking validation from others.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's not a tactic, it's an attitude. It's believing that you are of higher value than she is and that you will get what you want and make her work hard for what she wants rather than the reverse/
That's not being a bad boy or a jerk though, that's having a masculine frame and attitude.
 

marmel75

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That's not being a bad boy or a jerk though, that's having a masculine frame and attitude.
I suppose, but that leads to what WOULD be considered bad boy things like sexually escalating without a care as to what she thinks
 

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Nice guys trying to act bad comes off like Gene Wilder trying to act like Richard Pryor.

 
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