"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bad boy tactics???

Thechamp

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women love bad boys *******s etc so have you guys got any tactics to be a ******* jerk or a bad boy?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think I have become too bad... In that I am an actual jerk. I love to just toy with b!tches now and get them all wound up so it may be hurting my game as I have gone to the other extreme where women are starting to become averse to or even afraid of me. But you are right that having a little bad boy in you does make you more successful.

Anyway, first adopt the look and posturing of a bad boy. A bad boy expresses dominance and has a "I do not give a fvck" attitude. As for the look... You want to look very masculine. You can look masculine in jeans and a leather jacket, or even a suit. No skinny jeans, no shiny club shirts, nothing that can appear feminine in any way... But do not overo it and look like some kind of thug.
Then comes the posturing... This may be harder to achieve. You must be confident and fearless. Watch this video about "alpha male posturing". It covers everything very well and you should be able to get an idea about posturing from it. Pay attention to the people in the episode who are fixing the car...
You also must remember to put yourself first and to not give a fvck. Do not show softness, do not talk about feelings, none of that BS. Before I talk to women I often imagine myself fvcking or humiliating them, it gets me in to a more aggressive state. Do not submit to the female, and always make sure you are dominant and do not be afraid to toss a b!tch aside if necessary.
 

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Women don't like bad boys. They like men that just don't give a ****. Bad boys usually have that part built-in. It is fully possible to be a gentleman and respectful, yet have your pick of women begging for your attention. Stop seeking validation from others.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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zekko

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It's not a tactic, it's an attitude. It's believing that you are of higher value than she is and that you will get what you want and make her work hard for what she wants rather than the reverse/
That's not being a bad boy or a jerk though, that's having a masculine frame and attitude.
 

marmel75

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That's not being a bad boy or a jerk though, that's having a masculine frame and attitude.
I suppose, but that leads to what WOULD be considered bad boy things like sexually escalating without a care as to what she thinks
 

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Nice guys trying to act bad comes off like Gene Wilder trying to act like Richard Pryor.

 
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