You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Oke .If its solely OLD, I think alotta dudes will be curious what worked so well for you, and if there was a clear change somewhere or in something? Maybe its easy as different pictures or something more obvious like change or location.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
most of my lays came before Covid tho.
What part of “most of my lays were before Covid” did you not understand?
You need to chill-out rather then take my posts so seriously.
This is why I block you.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Explain please
.This aged well
So I'm back for a minute. Basically I've been an incel since this post. Had sex a grand total of 7 times this year compared to 82 times last year, and over 200 the year before that.
Part of me wants to blame the, I don't even know what you call it, current economic and social climate? Who knows. All I know is it hit me today when my fwb was back in town this weekend and we found each other on the dating app. She says she has a steady BF rn (and yet shes on a dating app), anyhow the fact she didn't want me when last time she was around we were ****ing like rabbits, kinda hit me in the "WTF happened to me?" zone of my brain.
I thought taking some time off of this forum would help. I did find a new fwb for a while but things just ended. Our last convo was about tofu and my last response to that was tofu harms testosterone. No reply and I never reached out, so that was that.
So.... yeah. I just feel a bit lost RN. When I came to this forum the last time, I was abundant with 5-6.5's and looking to up my game. Now I'm an incel that gets laid 7 times in a year. Wtf happened?
In other news, got a new job and making a **** ton of money. Ironically I feel like this has made me an even further beta since I'm an employee again, although I am diverting most of my pay to my investments in my hail mary to get to financial freedom.
Hope you guys are well.
Your Zen saying did not help you keep mentally stable. In the middle of your life, posting here, getting emotional when somebody says what you don't like, having a midlife-crisis because you banged less sloots than last year. Get a load of this guy.
Blocking you
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Ok thanks. It’s just frustrating. Especially now that I’m pretty sure dating apps use algos to decide who can match and who can’t. I think I was with an undercover last year. That was a weird one
I was just thinking about this yesterday, why the fvck do the dating apps even use algorithms to push the most matched and desired people to be displayed first? Who decided on that reasoning?
Maybe they’re a business and are pushing the best marketable product?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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