She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Oke .If its solely OLD, I think alotta dudes will be curious what worked so well for you, and if there was a clear change somewhere or in something? Maybe its easy as different pictures or something more obvious like change or location.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
most of my lays came before Covid tho.
What part of “most of my lays were before Covid” did you not understand?
You need to chill-out rather then take my posts so seriously.
This is why I block you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Explain please
.This aged well
So I'm back for a minute. Basically I've been an incel since this post. Had sex a grand total of 7 times this year compared to 82 times last year, and over 200 the year before that.
Part of me wants to blame the, I don't even know what you call it, current economic and social climate? Who knows. All I know is it hit me today when my fwb was back in town this weekend and we found each other on the dating app. She says she has a steady BF rn (and yet shes on a dating app), anyhow the fact she didn't want me when last time she was around we were ****ing like rabbits, kinda hit me in the "WTF happened to me?" zone of my brain.
I thought taking some time off of this forum would help. I did find a new fwb for a while but things just ended. Our last convo was about tofu and my last response to that was tofu harms testosterone. No reply and I never reached out, so that was that.
So.... yeah. I just feel a bit lost RN. When I came to this forum the last time, I was abundant with 5-6.5's and looking to up my game. Now I'm an incel that gets laid 7 times in a year. Wtf happened?
In other news, got a new job and making a **** ton of money. Ironically I feel like this has made me an even further beta since I'm an employee again, although I am diverting most of my pay to my investments in my hail mary to get to financial freedom.
Hope you guys are well.
Your Zen saying did not help you keep mentally stable. In the middle of your life, posting here, getting emotional when somebody says what you don't like, having a midlife-crisis because you banged less sloots than last year. Get a load of this guy.
Blocking you
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Ok thanks. It’s just frustrating. Especially now that I’m pretty sure dating apps use algos to decide who can match and who can’t. I think I was with an undercover last year. That was a weird one
I was just thinking about this yesterday, why the fvck do the dating apps even use algorithms to push the most matched and desired people to be displayed first? Who decided on that reasoning?
Maybe they’re a business and are pushing the best marketable product?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Right