Back to Incel Status :)

[SargeMaximus]

Sounds exhausting. Personally, I shall soon see in a full 4 years of celibacy, I don't miss female contact at all.

Why are you here then?

 

[SargeMaximus]

If you've had sex 7 days in 2022, how many different women? I agree 7 days of sex isn't good but it isn't yet incel status. One year of no sex is incel status.

i think it was 4 women. I had a fwb for a couple hookups

 

[SW15]

i think it was 4 women. I had a fwb for a couple hookups

Sex with 4 different women in a calendar yard isn't bad, even if the some of the 4 weren't new notches. The sex frequency is bad.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Sex with 4 different women in a calendar yard isn't bad, even if the some of the 4 weren't new notches. The sex frequency is bad.

Yeah the frequency is painful.

 

[lost_blackbird]

Why are you here then?

As I have said previously, I'm here to learn. I'm hoping for that one nugget of information
or an interesting outlook to make sense of why I feel this way without all the usual fluff
spouted on this site like it's universally correct information that applies to everybody.
It's the optimist in me.

 

[SargeMaximus]

As I have said previously, I'm here to learn. I'm hoping for that one nugget of information
or an interesting outlook to make sense of why I feel this way without all the usual fluff
spouted on this site like it's universally correct information that applies to everybody.
It's the optimist in me.

I feel that actually. For myself, I didnt get results till I did my own thing and largely ignored and contradicted the common Wisdom found on these kinds of forums. Reality and what worked for me was much different

 

[Doctor Europeo]

When I came to this forum the last time, I was abundant with 5-6.5's and looking to up my game. Now I'm an incel that gets laid 7 times in a year. Wtf happened?

Hi bro. Sorry to hear about the drop in quantity. Like others have said, part of it is the market going downhill, part of it is your new job. My guess is that another part of it is that at some point, for some reason, you started giving off the wrong vibe to girls.

Try planning dates you would actually enjoy regardless of company. Enjoy the dates themselves. If sex does happen, sex should just be the cherry on top.

Good luck bro.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Hi bro. Sorry to hear about the drop in quantity. Like others have said, part of it is the market going downhill, part of it is your new job. My guess is that another part of it is that at some point, for some reason, you started giving off the wrong vibe to girls.

Try planning dates you would actually enjoy regardless of company. Enjoy the dates themselves. If sex does happen, sex should just be the cherry on top.

Good luck bro.

I don’t like dates so incel it is

 

[ubercat]

Hmm what normally brings average up in a year is STRs. How long are these chicks hanging round?

BTW if you are in a relationship and getting laid 100 times a year pretty good. Woman is on rag and PM'S so pvssy dispenser playing up 50%. Add in other times when she s cracked out.

And at that frequency y would u care. Better things to do

 

[SargeMaximus]

Hmm what normally brings average up in a year is Stars. How long are these chicks hanging round?

What do you mean by stars?

 

[ubercat]

Damned autocorrect. Short Term Relationships. Basically try buy

 

[SargeMaximus]

Damned autocorrect. Short Term Relationships. Basically try buy

Try buy? All these terms I don’t know.

yes they are short relatively. My last fwb was a few fvcks. The one before that same thing, one before that was a few months. Sometimes I hit it off other times I don’t but Usually have an abundance of the 5-6.5’s. Not this year

 

[ubercat]

The dirty secret here is if you want abundance of pvssy you have to spend a lot of time or have a lot of discipline and organised game. Maybe not worth it unless you are wanting a unicorn/keeper. Concentrate on career, investing hobbies.

Enjoy what comes your way when it comes. Keep yourself productively busy the rest of the time

 

[SargeMaximus]

The dirty secret here is if you want abundance of pvssy you have to spend a lot of time or have a lot of discipline and organised game. Maybe not worth it unless you are wanting a unicorn/keeper. Concentrate on career, investing hobbies.

Enjoy what comes your way when it comes. Keep yourself productively busy the rest of the time

Yeah that’s my goal atm. It’s just annoying because in 2020 I was having so much sex, and the year before that wasn’t bad either. So many girls I felt like I couldn’t lose. And then this. Stupid powers that be throwing a wrench in my golden age

 

[ubercat]

If u don't mind sharing. How old r u ?

 

[Gamisch]

I can relate to this. Getting women happens most naturally when you are in a flow state. Like they say you make money with money. Once broke it seems way harder to get that groove back.

That's why I didn't respond to the thread about how many women have you slept with. Because it doesn't matter. A man who slept with a 1000 women , will feel the same as ,and basically is, an incel after a dry spell of let's say a year. On the other hand , a 30 y.o virgin can study game and start slaying. It's all internal...you are only as get as your last victory.

I say I can relate ,because I slept with plenty of women, but I've always been a "lazy player". Women made it real easy for me, vs some dudes on this forum who can actually turn the switch on and off when they want. And that's the place where a man wants to be.

 

[Gamisch]

I've always loved the concept of the matrix blue pill. Open this pandora box and it cannot be closed. Wouldn't you rather stay oblivious? Being blue for me meant looking for "the one" , the happily ever after Disney dream ect. I either liked a girl and fell in love , or I didn't liked her enough for the Disney dream and just broke her heart.

I can sometimes be jealous of guys who are completely bluepilled. I also won't start RP rhetoric like conversations just to convince them of my new believes. But now the dream about "the one" is dead, and getting older,I feel also less motivated to hunt.

At this point I gotta re learn how to hunt and how to this with a RP view, and without the useall "butterflies " and tingles. Seems less passionate.

 

[SargeMaximus]

If u don't mind sharing. How old r u ?

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I can relate to this. Getting women happens most naturally when you are in a flow state. Like they say you make money with money. Once broke it seems way harder to get that groove back.

That's why I didn't respond to the thread about how many women have you slept with. Because it doesn't matter. A man who slept with a 1000 women , will feel the same as ,and basically is, an incel after a dry spell of let's say a year. On the other hand , a 30 y.o virgin can study game and start slaying. It's all internal...you are only as get as your last victory.

I say I can relate ,because I slept with plenty of women, but I've always been a "lazy player". Women made it real easy for me, vs some dudes on this forum who can actually turn the switch on and off when they want. And that's the place where a man wants to be.

yeah I feel now like I was just lucky but I do think I got some insight into what worked. This year it seems women are more looking for providers. I have the same pictures and everything on my dating profiles, even use the same openers yet they all putting a “oh I’m looking for dates” or “looking to enjoy activities and explore the city” bs posts I never got back in the day.

I've always loved the concept of the matrix blue pill. Open this pandora box and it cannot be closed. Wouldn't you rather stay oblivious? Being blue for me meant looking for "the one" , the happily ever after Disney dream ect. I either liked a girl and fell in love , or I didn't liked her enough for the Disney dream and just broke her heart.

I can sometimes be jealous of guys who are completely bluepilled. I also won't start RP rhetoric like conversations just to convince them of my new believes. But now the dream about "the one" is dead, and getting older,I feel also less motivated to hunt.

At this point I gotta re learn how to hunt and how to this with a RP view, and without the useall "butterflies " and tingles. Seems less passionate.

Not me, I love the red pill.

 

[Gamisch]

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yeah I feel now like I was just lucky but I do think I got some insight into what worked. This year it seems women are more looking for providers. I have the same pictures and everything on my dating profiles, even use the same openers yet they all putting a “oh I’m looking for dates” or “looking to enjoy activities and explore the city” bs posts I never got back in the day.



Not me, I love the red pill.

Loving the RP is a great place to be. Now you gotta try to capture the magic back.

Do you mainly use old to get dates?

 

[SargeMaximus]

Loving the RP is a great place to be. Now you gotta try to capture the magic back.

Do you mainly use old to get dates?

totally agree! And yes only OLD. Believe it or not, when I first started pick up in 2012, I started with approaching. Must have done 200-400 women in a few years. Nothing. I stayed a virgin till I was 28 then I sort of figured out my own style and started online dating which was my key to success. I lost count of all the women I slept with. 2020 was the peak it seems