"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Back on the prowl after 14 month monogamy. Seeking the missing keys

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I don't know... She seemed to be interested enough for the conversation to go as far as it did.
Yeah but then how do I take it from that to sex. There is a huge chasm between talking like that and ****ing. That’s why I prefer direct sexual because there is no chasm.

this conversation style game doesn’t make any sense to me
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Maybe you can work with what they give you. Like ask her what one does she like better? Mikedee will be the better one to ask. I would have went with what I edited in the post two above this. I'm not sure as to how long though. I haven't got that far. As far as conversation, I've learned that if you stick to one topic too long, they might quit replying. Like 5 messages back and forth with one topic... I've only had one chick respond that many times, and she stopped even though the topic was something she was greatly interested in.
Yeah but I don’t want to spend time on a topic I just don’t know how to go from a conversation into sex. Not even sex talk I just don’t get how that works
 

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I didn't say you did. I was just giving you a warning with the time frame it took for a chick to get ADD with me. So there is some reference point for you. As far as going from the conversation to sex, I'm not quite sure... That second conversation would have been a good tester for the pineapple to sweeter jizz taste to sex talk, like I had mentioned in the earlier comment.
Yeah true. I’ll keep experimenting. Thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Texted a girl I got her number a while back. Just seeing if she was back in town. Almost a threesome but she’s still out of town. I will next and if she contacts me then she contacts me but the ball is in her court
 

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Had a fvck date set for tonight with a new girl. She texted me every day and we made plans. She seemed quite interested but today when I texted her to confirm a time? Ghosted. I’ll never understand such behaviour
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Feeling a bit put off women and dating atm. Feel like going celibate for the next little while to reset myself and my mindset is a good idea.
 

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Feeling a bit put off women and dating atm. Feel like going celibate for the next little while to reset myself and my mindset is a good idea.
Not a bad idea to focus on yourself once in awhile. Besides, in the end, you'll only have yourself anyways.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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