“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Back on the prowl after 14 month monogamy. Seeking the missing keys

SargeMaximus

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I don't know... She seemed to be interested enough for the conversation to go as far as it did.
Yeah but then how do I take it from that to sex. There is a huge chasm between talking like that and ****ing. That’s why I prefer direct sexual because there is no chasm.

this conversation style game doesn’t make any sense to me
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Maybe you can work with what they give you. Like ask her what one does she like better? Mikedee will be the better one to ask. I would have went with what I edited in the post two above this. I'm not sure as to how long though. I haven't got that far. As far as conversation, I've learned that if you stick to one topic too long, they might quit replying. Like 5 messages back and forth with one topic... I've only had one chick respond that many times, and she stopped even though the topic was something she was greatly interested in.
Yeah but I don’t want to spend time on a topic I just don’t know how to go from a conversation into sex. Not even sex talk I just don’t get how that works
 

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I didn't say you did. I was just giving you a warning with the time frame it took for a chick to get ADD with me. So there is some reference point for you. As far as going from the conversation to sex, I'm not quite sure... That second conversation would have been a good tester for the pineapple to sweeter jizz taste to sex talk, like I had mentioned in the earlier comment.
Yeah true. I’ll keep experimenting. Thanks.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Texted a girl I got her number a while back. Just seeing if she was back in town. Almost a threesome but she’s still out of town. I will next and if she contacts me then she contacts me but the ball is in her court
 

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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Had a fvck date set for tonight with a new girl. She texted me every day and we made plans. She seemed quite interested but today when I texted her to confirm a time? Ghosted. I’ll never understand such behaviour
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Feeling a bit put off women and dating atm. Feel like going celibate for the next little while to reset myself and my mindset is a good idea.
 

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Feeling a bit put off women and dating atm. Feel like going celibate for the next little while to reset myself and my mindset is a good idea.
Not a bad idea to focus on yourself once in awhile. Besides, in the end, you'll only have yourself anyways.
 
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