"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TheGambino

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So ive been doing several things lateley.

I want to work on myself again since there are some big things coming up for me like a great job in a week, selling real estate from Spain and Greece.

I got REALLY out of shape. Gained 10KG, lot of fat percentage due gaming and being lazy.

I dont find the confidence to cold approach like I would...

Im planning on getting my diploma this year aswell.

So some goals to keep my track on the upcoming 6 months.

Losing 12% body fat.
Cutting of gambling completeley.
Cutting out gaming a lot.

GYM EVERYDAY and then cold approaches and taking every chance I get with a pretty laday
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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badboyjmm

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Welcome back bro,

Keep yourself focus and the rest will be gravy.

Watch out with the gambling. It's way too addictive.
 

dustmuffin

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Welcome back...Remember a fool and his money are soon parted.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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esev8

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Welcome back, I recently arrived back here too, let me tell you that you are in the righ place!!!!
About body fat, don´t make that your goal it´s best to say you want to drop 2 kilos per month that´s a reasonable objective!!
I am struggling with similar issues here!! Good luck and let us know some motivation tools!!
 
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