"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheGambino

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So ive been doing several things lateley.

I want to work on myself again since there are some big things coming up for me like a great job in a week, selling real estate from Spain and Greece.

I got REALLY out of shape. Gained 10KG, lot of fat percentage due gaming and being lazy.

I dont find the confidence to cold approach like I would...

Im planning on getting my diploma this year aswell.

So some goals to keep my track on the upcoming 6 months.

Losing 12% body fat.
Cutting of gambling completeley.
Cutting out gaming a lot.

GYM EVERYDAY and then cold approaches and taking every chance I get with a pretty laday
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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badboyjmm

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Welcome back bro,

Keep yourself focus and the rest will be gravy.

Watch out with the gambling. It's way too addictive.
 

dustmuffin

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Welcome back...Remember a fool and his money are soon parted.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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esev8

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Welcome back, I recently arrived back here too, let me tell you that you are in the righ place!!!!
About body fat, don´t make that your goal it´s best to say you want to drop 2 kilos per month that´s a reasonable objective!!
I am struggling with similar issues here!! Good luck and let us know some motivation tools!!
 
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