You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Where is the red meat and eggs? Chicken is clean food and quite frankly not high in calories nor as anabolic as red meat is...so that means its not a good bulking food. I wouldn't take it out, just not as my main courses throughout the day. The protein precentage is there, but I'd be drinking like a half gallon of milk = 8 cups a day and plenty of red meat, eggs, and then some chicken. Also where are the veges and fruit? Your just sucking on chicken, milk, and bread all day. That's not good for you. Not to mention a multivitamin could be implemented.Rampage1 said:Todays Diet:
9 oz chicken in Tortilla Wrap: 72g protein
3 scoops of whey plus whole milk: 70g protein
7 oz chicken plus white bread: 56g protein
3 scoops of whey plus milk: 70g protein
8 oz chicken with chilli sauce plus large glass of milk: 70g protein
1 scoop of whey in water with glutamine: 25g protein
Also, I had one bag of peanuts as well which added a further 10g or so of protein and some more calories.
I am not sure how many calories this was but it weighed up to about 370g protein, which is certainly a sufficient amount.. I also cooked the chickens in olive oil and had a pint of lemonade and blackcurrent also. Does anyone know how many calories this is? Is is enough to build muscle? I also had chilli sauce over the chicken on 2 meals, which contains a large amount of carbs![]()
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
yeah you are right quik, it turned out my legs were sore for about 3 days afterwards, so maybe I should have just left it.Quiksilver said:Hey just for next time, if you hurt yourself in the gym, don't stay to finish the workout. Call it a day and leave. During a workout your body has a way of masking pain, so a serious injury could feel like a little twinge of stiffness. The next morning is usually when the real pain sets in.
How did you manage deadlifts with a stuffed hammie?
Also, you don't have time for drinking or university anymore... This is your life now.![]()
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.