Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Where is the red meat and eggs? Chicken is clean food and quite frankly not high in calories nor as anabolic as red meat is...so that means its not a good bulking food. I wouldn't take it out, just not as my main courses throughout the day. The protein precentage is there, but I'd be drinking like a half gallon of milk = 8 cups a day and plenty of red meat, eggs, and then some chicken. Also where are the veges and fruit? Your just sucking on chicken, milk, and bread all day. That's not good for you. Not to mention a multivitamin could be implemented.Rampage1 said:Todays Diet:
9 oz chicken in Tortilla Wrap: 72g protein
3 scoops of whey plus whole milk: 70g protein
7 oz chicken plus white bread: 56g protein
3 scoops of whey plus milk: 70g protein
8 oz chicken with chilli sauce plus large glass of milk: 70g protein
1 scoop of whey in water with glutamine: 25g protein
Also, I had one bag of peanuts as well which added a further 10g or so of protein and some more calories.
I am not sure how many calories this was but it weighed up to about 370g protein, which is certainly a sufficient amount.. I also cooked the chickens in olive oil and had a pint of lemonade and blackcurrent also. Does anyone know how many calories this is? Is is enough to build muscle? I also had chilli sauce over the chicken on 2 meals, which contains a large amount of carbs![]()
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
yeah you are right quik, it turned out my legs were sore for about 3 days afterwards, so maybe I should have just left it.Quiksilver said:Hey just for next time, if you hurt yourself in the gym, don't stay to finish the workout. Call it a day and leave. During a workout your body has a way of masking pain, so a serious injury could feel like a little twinge of stiffness. The next morning is usually when the real pain sets in.
How did you manage deadlifts with a stuffed hammie?
Also, you don't have time for drinking or university anymore... This is your life now.![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.