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any ideas how to reply to a chick who says: I need to go back home at 10PM
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
back home at 10PM
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
mustfirstregister
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no, its not on a date she told me that. im setting up a date to see her this week and she says she has to go home at 10PM
SgtSplacker
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If she's young then that's kinda normal. At least try to save some bread and do something cheap and simple. Tell her that you would love to take her out on a nicer date but you need more time to really enjoy the evening so you're just going to miniature gold or something.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You might as well just ask and see if the excuse sounds remotely legit. If it's something like she works an early morning shift then find out which day she doesn't work. If she doesn't work with you there then stop spending any more time on her.J Roc said:
Desdinova
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If she gives you a curfew, that's when you plan an extremely fun activity for your date. Put on your best personality, be happy, funny, use kino. When 9:30 kicks in, abruptly end the date and insist she is home at 10:00. If she protests, just start heading toward the car and she will follow. Drive her home. Kiss her goodnight.
She will beg to see you again.
She will beg to see you again.