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any ideas how to reply to a chick who says: I need to go back home at 10PM
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
back home at 10PM
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
mustfirstregister
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no, its not on a date she told me that. im setting up a date to see her this week and she says she has to go home at 10PM
SgtSplacker
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If she's young then that's kinda normal. At least try to save some bread and do something cheap and simple. Tell her that you would love to take her out on a nicer date but you need more time to really enjoy the evening so you're just going to miniature gold or something.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You might as well just ask and see if the excuse sounds remotely legit. If it's something like she works an early morning shift then find out which day she doesn't work. If she doesn't work with you there then stop spending any more time on her.J Roc said:
Desdinova
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If she gives you a curfew, that's when you plan an extremely fun activity for your date. Put on your best personality, be happy, funny, use kino. When 9:30 kicks in, abruptly end the date and insist she is home at 10:00. If she protests, just start heading toward the car and she will follow. Drive her home. Kiss her goodnight.
She will beg to see you again.
She will beg to see you again.