mustfirstregister
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any ideas how to reply to a chick who says: I need to go back home at 10PM
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
back home at 10PM
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
mustfirstregister
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no, its not on a date she told me that. im setting up a date to see her this week and she says she has to go home at 10PM
SgtSplacker
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If she's young then that's kinda normal. At least try to save some bread and do something cheap and simple. Tell her that you would love to take her out on a nicer date but you need more time to really enjoy the evening so you're just going to miniature gold or something.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You might as well just ask and see if the excuse sounds remotely legit. If it's something like she works an early morning shift then find out which day she doesn't work. If she doesn't work with you there then stop spending any more time on her.J Roc said:
Desdinova
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If she gives you a curfew, that's when you plan an extremely fun activity for your date. Put on your best personality, be happy, funny, use kino. When 9:30 kicks in, abruptly end the date and insist she is home at 10:00. If she protests, just start heading toward the car and she will follow. Drive her home. Kiss her goodnight.
She will beg to see you again.
She will beg to see you again.