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any ideas how to reply to a chick who says: I need to go back home at 10PM
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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no, its not on a date she told me that. im setting up a date to see her this week and she says she has to go home at 10PM
SgtSplacker
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If she's young then that's kinda normal. At least try to save some bread and do something cheap and simple. Tell her that you would love to take her out on a nicer date but you need more time to really enjoy the evening so you're just going to miniature gold or something.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You might as well just ask and see if the excuse sounds remotely legit. If it's something like she works an early morning shift then find out which day she doesn't work. If she doesn't work with you there then stop spending any more time on her.J Roc said:
Desdinova
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If she gives you a curfew, that's when you plan an extremely fun activity for your date. Put on your best personality, be happy, funny, use kino. When 9:30 kicks in, abruptly end the date and insist she is home at 10:00. If she protests, just start heading toward the car and she will follow. Drive her home. Kiss her goodnight.
She will beg to see you again.
She will beg to see you again.