"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OzyBoy

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It looks good having your own place to yourself, right now i am sharing and it sucks, i have already said to everyone i am moving out in a few weeks so i have decided i am going to get my own place and its going to be sick. :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I just hired a contractor to clear out my back yard and build a deck.. came out pretty damn nice.

I just need some chairs..

As for throwing partys.. not my thing.. i like to get single girls back to the place one by one...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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OzyBoy

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I'm moving into a new place in a new area at the end of next week. Maybe i will take some pics and post them up on this site when i have everything set up.
 
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actually the bachelor pad is going to happen anymore, my mate i was going to move with said he can't move in anymore, so i am not paying the rent all by myself. i might leave it for a while and not move.
 
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Cool Dog.

I love dogs, man I'm going to have to get one again one day. I had a great one that died a few years back.

But with travelling it's tough.
 
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ya the dog is great, but she has cramped me a bit.. traveling i have to find someone to walk and feed her, and alot of condos on the beach wouldn't take a dog, so I had to settle out west.

Shes great with the ladies though :)
 
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nice deck and landscaping job

the living room furniture looks nice. it has a warm manly feel to it. however the walls are sooooo bare, i saw a mirror at either myers or walmart tonite that was huge and the wood was dark and wood really look nice with that new furniture you got.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've added a mirror and picture of my family to the one of the walls.. I"ll take some more pictures soon.

I'm going to remodel the kitchen next and then buy the TV. For now not having a tv in the living room is a good way to get girls up to the bedroom to watch tv.
 
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Update, I will be adding an lcd tv to the living room. Anyone else have any cool stuff in there pad?

Next job, is the kitchen, going to rip it out and install new cabinets and countertops.
 
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