"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bachelor Pad - Check out mine

OzyBoy

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It looks good having your own place to yourself, right now i am sharing and it sucks, i have already said to everyone i am moving out in a few weeks so i have decided i am going to get my own place and its going to be sick. :D
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I just hired a contractor to clear out my back yard and build a deck.. came out pretty damn nice.

I just need some chairs..

As for throwing partys.. not my thing.. i like to get single girls back to the place one by one...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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OzyBoy

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I'm moving into a new place in a new area at the end of next week. Maybe i will take some pics and post them up on this site when i have everything set up.
 

OzyBoy

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actually the bachelor pad is going to happen anymore, my mate i was going to move with said he can't move in anymore, so i am not paying the rent all by myself. i might leave it for a while and not move.
 

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Cool Dog.

I love dogs, man I'm going to have to get one again one day. I had a great one that died a few years back.

But with travelling it's tough.
 

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ya the dog is great, but she has cramped me a bit.. traveling i have to find someone to walk and feed her, and alot of condos on the beach wouldn't take a dog, so I had to settle out west.

Shes great with the ladies though :)
 

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nice deck and landscaping job

the living room furniture looks nice. it has a warm manly feel to it. however the walls are sooooo bare, i saw a mirror at either myers or walmart tonite that was huge and the wood was dark and wood really look nice with that new furniture you got.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I've added a mirror and picture of my family to the one of the walls.. I"ll take some more pictures soon.

I'm going to remodel the kitchen next and then buy the TV. For now not having a tv in the living room is a good way to get girls up to the bedroom to watch tv.
 

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Update, I will be adding an lcd tv to the living room. Anyone else have any cool stuff in there pad?

Next job, is the kitchen, going to rip it out and install new cabinets and countertops.
 
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