It looks good having your own place to yourself, right now i am sharing and it sucks, i have already said to everyone i am moving out in a few weeks so i have decided i am going to get my own place and its going to be sick. 
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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I just hired a contractor to clear out my back yard and build a deck.. came out pretty damn nice.
I just need some chairs..
As for throwing partys.. not my thing.. i like to get single girls back to the place one by one...
I just need some chairs..
As for throwing partys.. not my thing.. i like to get single girls back to the place one by one...
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here's my living room:
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and heres the deck:
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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don't know which one is your girl, but those pics are hot~
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In the third row with the pink bikini
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Not bad.
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thanks.. the pad has been working very nicely for seduction.
Next is the car.
Next is the car.
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anyone here checking out the new pontiac solstice?
bad ass little sports car
bad ass little sports car
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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ya the dog is great, but she has cramped me a bit.. traveling i have to find someone to walk and feed her, and alot of condos on the beach wouldn't take a dog, so I had to settle out west.
Shes great with the ladies though
Shes great with the ladies though
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nice deck and landscaping job
the living room furniture looks nice. it has a warm manly feel to it. however the walls are sooooo bare, i saw a mirror at either myers or walmart tonite that was huge and the wood was dark and wood really look nice with that new furniture you got.
the living room furniture looks nice. it has a warm manly feel to it. however the walls are sooooo bare, i saw a mirror at either myers or walmart tonite that was huge and the wood was dark and wood really look nice with that new furniture you got.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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I've added a mirror and picture of my family to the one of the walls.. I"ll take some more pictures soon.
I'm going to remodel the kitchen next and then buy the TV. For now not having a tv in the living room is a good way to get girls up to the bedroom to watch tv.
I'm going to remodel the kitchen next and then buy the TV. For now not having a tv in the living room is a good way to get girls up to the bedroom to watch tv.
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Update, I will be adding an lcd tv to the living room. Anyone else have any cool stuff in there pad?
Next job, is the kitchen, going to rip it out and install new cabinets and countertops.
Next job, is the kitchen, going to rip it out and install new cabinets and countertops.