"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Bachelor Pad - Check out mine

OzyBoy

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It looks good having your own place to yourself, right now i am sharing and it sucks, i have already said to everyone i am moving out in a few weeks so i have decided i am going to get my own place and its going to be sick. :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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swordfish01

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I just hired a contractor to clear out my back yard and build a deck.. came out pretty damn nice.

I just need some chairs..

As for throwing partys.. not my thing.. i like to get single girls back to the place one by one...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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OzyBoy

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I'm moving into a new place in a new area at the end of next week. Maybe i will take some pics and post them up on this site when i have everything set up.
 

OzyBoy

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actually the bachelor pad is going to happen anymore, my mate i was going to move with said he can't move in anymore, so i am not paying the rent all by myself. i might leave it for a while and not move.
 

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Cool Dog.

I love dogs, man I'm going to have to get one again one day. I had a great one that died a few years back.

But with travelling it's tough.
 

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ya the dog is great, but she has cramped me a bit.. traveling i have to find someone to walk and feed her, and alot of condos on the beach wouldn't take a dog, so I had to settle out west.

Shes great with the ladies though :)
 

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nice deck and landscaping job

the living room furniture looks nice. it has a warm manly feel to it. however the walls are sooooo bare, i saw a mirror at either myers or walmart tonite that was huge and the wood was dark and wood really look nice with that new furniture you got.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've added a mirror and picture of my family to the one of the walls.. I"ll take some more pictures soon.

I'm going to remodel the kitchen next and then buy the TV. For now not having a tv in the living room is a good way to get girls up to the bedroom to watch tv.
 

swordfish01

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Update, I will be adding an lcd tv to the living room. Anyone else have any cool stuff in there pad?

Next job, is the kitchen, going to rip it out and install new cabinets and countertops.
 
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