It looks good having your own place to yourself, right now i am sharing and it sucks, i have already said to everyone i am moving out in a few weeks so i have decided i am going to get my own place and its going to be sick. 
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I just hired a contractor to clear out my back yard and build a deck.. came out pretty damn nice.
I just need some chairs..
As for throwing partys.. not my thing.. i like to get single girls back to the place one by one...
I just need some chairs..
As for throwing partys.. not my thing.. i like to get single girls back to the place one by one...
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here's my living room:
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and heres the deck:
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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don't know which one is your girl, but those pics are hot~
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In the third row with the pink bikini
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Not bad.
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thanks.. the pad has been working very nicely for seduction.
Next is the car.
Next is the car.
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anyone here checking out the new pontiac solstice?
bad ass little sports car
bad ass little sports car
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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ya the dog is great, but she has cramped me a bit.. traveling i have to find someone to walk and feed her, and alot of condos on the beach wouldn't take a dog, so I had to settle out west.
Shes great with the ladies though
Shes great with the ladies though
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nice deck and landscaping job
the living room furniture looks nice. it has a warm manly feel to it. however the walls are sooooo bare, i saw a mirror at either myers or walmart tonite that was huge and the wood was dark and wood really look nice with that new furniture you got.
the living room furniture looks nice. it has a warm manly feel to it. however the walls are sooooo bare, i saw a mirror at either myers or walmart tonite that was huge and the wood was dark and wood really look nice with that new furniture you got.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I've added a mirror and picture of my family to the one of the walls.. I"ll take some more pictures soon.
I'm going to remodel the kitchen next and then buy the TV. For now not having a tv in the living room is a good way to get girls up to the bedroom to watch tv.
I'm going to remodel the kitchen next and then buy the TV. For now not having a tv in the living room is a good way to get girls up to the bedroom to watch tv.
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Update, I will be adding an lcd tv to the living room. Anyone else have any cool stuff in there pad?
Next job, is the kitchen, going to rip it out and install new cabinets and countertops.
Next job, is the kitchen, going to rip it out and install new cabinets and countertops.