"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Babes through craigslist
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
The Comeback Kid
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scartissue5555
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
I've heard that the best ways to score on Craigslist is to put up a profile and have the girls message you. I've tried putting up a profile a couple of times and I was only messaged by gay guys and webcam girls.
An attractive girl wearing revealing clothing gets talked to 20-30x a day.
I am a firm believer that if she has to find a guy online its a red flag..
Either major attention ***** or not attractive.
Goodluck though if you do get results on clist let us know
Chris
The ONLY way to hook up with hot girls on craigslist is to put up a profile of yourself and have them message you. If you don't want attractive girls, don't do this, do something else. I have had tremendous luck with girls from craigslist for two reasons.
One-- I am attractive. Believe it or not, all hot girls on craigslist simply ignore EVERYTHING you wrote and scroll down and look at your picture first. Then, if you pass, they might read a thing or two.
Two-- I make it challenging and don't care who I hurt. Since I am a naturally ****y person, many of my ads simply start out with: "Yes, I know that I am hot, thanks...find something more original to say" and then continue by saying something similar to: "since I know that I am attractive, I can pretty much get away with anything I want, so-- if you are a 21-28 yr old white girl who weighs under 125 and has no kids, you are allowed to email me. Otherwise, don't bother. Include a picture so I can more easily judge you"
You can make them answer all types of questions or qualify themselves over and over, but the key is to always have an attitude of: Fvck you, I am better than you anyways. If you are bored, look at the other guys ads-- you can pretty much guess who hooks up and who does not. The ads which do nothing are filled with desperation and wreak of "nice guy." If you ever use the words: love, relationship, destiny, cuddle, nice, romantic, gift, or similar words in your ad that in any way evoke softness, you are doomed. Keep in mind that if you follow my advise, your inbox will be filled with hate mail from all types of unfortunate females who think that what you are doing is unfair/wrong/bad/mean/superficial etc. But, it will also be filled with messages from really hot girls who are challenging you to make sure that you actually are a mean a55hole and not faking it just to get attention from them.
If, upon the first email from a hot girl you immediately respond with something like "hello there cutie! glad that you took the time out of your busy day to write something to me. I know it seems like I am mean when you read my ad, but I am really a sweet, gentle guy who is looking for a caring..." You have already screwed up. The reply needs to be something like "Hey-- I'm just doing this internet dating thing because I'm bored at work. I don't really like the internet anyways because most of the girls you meet online are useless, whats your number so I can call you next time I go do (something awesome which she would want to do)" Then, if you are feeling at least some sort of connection, ask her if she does something that you are interested in. But not something that says you are boring. Something that says you are exciting: "Do you like CSI?" is not good. "Do you like waterskiing?" is much better.
If you follow these steps, girls will contact you. After that, you are on your own.
TheDoctor
Don Juan
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
I answered your question before you asked it.TheDoctor said:
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If you aren't hot, when what? I'm just an average dude. Do you need to have a picture on your ad?Duffdog said:
Next what do you do if you are not a "naturally ****y person." On a scale of a nice guy to ****y jerk, I'm a 6.5 though I'm starting to shift slowly towards ****y. I don't want to fake ****iness in my profile or replies because I can't hold it up in conversation.
I don't care about getting the hottest girls. I'll be perfectly happy if I can end up having sex with 5's on up.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Stupid question, but, how do you know that you aren't attractive? I know that my face is not, but I am tall and work out all the time so I have that going for me. The picture is the key--seriously. Maybe spike your hair or do something which make you look eye catching. Ask some average girl what she would do to make you look better. Different haircut, different clothes, sunglasses etc. There has to be something you can do to have some sort of an edge.Maxtro said:
If you are not naturally ****y and get into fights all the time, I guess it could be ok. There is a saying on here to always "fake it till you make it" which I guess could work. Its more important to have the ****y attitude through words in your ad than to have it in real life when you meet the girl. Just basically write the meanest, most chauvinistic things you can think of in your ad that would get you slapped or fired in real life. You want to be the guy who makes waves, not the guy who blends in.
PM me when you get a minute.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
LOL write stuff that would get me slapped in real life. That's pretty crazy. Sure you don't have to act that way IRL if you meet the girl?
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
....dudes, SO MANY girls emailed me... REAL ONES. hahahaha sometimes girls make me want to *facepalm*... eh it was funny though. All their responses were like "I dont care about money at all, but lets just see where things go."
...Speaking of which, I did put another ad up whining about how girls only care about and use me for my REALLY BIG C0CK! hahaha, once again, i never would've thought they would take it serious, but i got emails again. Not as many..
But one girl responded that it was funny, she knew I was joking, she was the only one. So we started talking. She ended up being a swimmer for a college team, fvcked her while her bf was out town.. so who knows... Forgot all about that stuff, that was awhile ago.
