“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Duffdog

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Are you talking about the hookers on the site or the normal girls?

I have taken out several normal girls from CL and nailed them, no problem. As far as hookers go--never done the prostitute thing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I find Craigslist to be a waste of time. The first problem is that about 90% of the girls on Craigslist aren't real.If you do find a girl who's real your probably the 50th guy who messaged her. Good luck getting her to reply to your message let alone read it.

I've heard that the best ways to score on Craigslist is to put up a profile and have the girls message you. I've tried putting up a profile a couple of times and I was only messaged by gay guys and webcam girls.
 

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An attractive girl gets talked to 10-15x a day easily if she's outdoors.
An attractive girl wearing revealing clothing gets talked to 20-30x a day.
I am a firm believer that if she has to find a guy online its a red flag..
Either major attention ***** or not attractive.
Goodluck though if you do get results on clist let us know
Chris
 

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good point Maxtro,

The ONLY way to hook up with hot girls on craigslist is to put up a profile of yourself and have them message you. If you don't want attractive girls, don't do this, do something else. I have had tremendous luck with girls from craigslist for two reasons.

One-- I am attractive. Believe it or not, all hot girls on craigslist simply ignore EVERYTHING you wrote and scroll down and look at your picture first. Then, if you pass, they might read a thing or two.

Two-- I make it challenging and don't care who I hurt. Since I am a naturally ****y person, many of my ads simply start out with: "Yes, I know that I am hot, thanks...find something more original to say" and then continue by saying something similar to: "since I know that I am attractive, I can pretty much get away with anything I want, so-- if you are a 21-28 yr old white girl who weighs under 125 and has no kids, you are allowed to email me. Otherwise, don't bother. Include a picture so I can more easily judge you"

You can make them answer all types of questions or qualify themselves over and over, but the key is to always have an attitude of: Fvck you, I am better than you anyways. If you are bored, look at the other guys ads-- you can pretty much guess who hooks up and who does not. The ads which do nothing are filled with desperation and wreak of "nice guy." If you ever use the words: love, relationship, destiny, cuddle, nice, romantic, gift, or similar words in your ad that in any way evoke softness, you are doomed. Keep in mind that if you follow my advise, your inbox will be filled with hate mail from all types of unfortunate females who think that what you are doing is unfair/wrong/bad/mean/superficial etc. But, it will also be filled with messages from really hot girls who are challenging you to make sure that you actually are a mean a55hole and not faking it just to get attention from them.

If, upon the first email from a hot girl you immediately respond with something like "hello there cutie! glad that you took the time out of your busy day to write something to me. I know it seems like I am mean when you read my ad, but I am really a sweet, gentle guy who is looking for a caring..." You have already screwed up. The reply needs to be something like "Hey-- I'm just doing this internet dating thing because I'm bored at work. I don't really like the internet anyways because most of the girls you meet online are useless, whats your number so I can call you next time I go do (something awesome which she would want to do)" Then, if you are feeling at least some sort of connection, ask her if she does something that you are interested in. But not something that says you are boring. Something that says you are exciting: "Do you like CSI?" is not good. "Do you like waterskiing?" is much better.

If you follow these steps, girls will contact you. After that, you are on your own.
 

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What about the casual encounters section? There are always tons of decent looking w*ores looking for c0ck (in my area anyway). Are they legit? Dirty nymphos needing some action is the vibe I get. Any input?
 

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TheDoctor said:
What about the casual encounters section? There are always tons of decent looking w*ores looking for c0ck (in my area anyway). Are they legit? Dirty nymphos needing some action is the vibe I get. Any input?
I answered your question before you asked it.
Maxtro said:
I find Craigslist to be a waste of time. The first problem is that about 90% of the girls on Craigslist aren't real. If you do find a girl who's real you're probably the 50th guy who messaged her. Good luck getting her to reply to your message let alone read it.
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One-- I am attractive. Believe it or not, all hot girls on craigslist simply ignore EVERYTHING you wrote and scroll down and look at your picture first. Then, if you pass, they might read a thing or two.
If you aren't hot, when what? I'm just an average dude. Do you need to have a picture on your ad?

Next what do you do if you are not a "naturally ****y person." On a scale of a nice guy to ****y jerk, I'm a 6.5 though I'm starting to shift slowly towards ****y. I don't want to fake ****iness in my profile or replies because I can't hold it up in conversation.

I don't care about getting the hottest girls. I'll be perfectly happy if I can end up having sex with 5's on up.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Maxtro said:
I answered your question before you asked it.

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If you aren't hot, when what? I'm just an average dude. Do you need to have a picture on your ad?

Next what do you do if you are not a "naturally ****y person." On a scale of a nice guy to ****y jerk, I'm a 6.5 though I'm starting to shift slowly towards ****y. I don't want to fake ****iness in my profile or replies because I can't hold it up in conversation.

I don't care about getting the hottest girls. I'll be perfectly happy if I can end up having sex with 5's on up.
Stupid question, but, how do you know that you aren't attractive? I know that my face is not, but I am tall and work out all the time so I have that going for me. The picture is the key--seriously. Maybe spike your hair or do something which make you look eye catching. Ask some average girl what she would do to make you look better. Different haircut, different clothes, sunglasses etc. There has to be something you can do to have some sort of an edge.

If you are not naturally ****y and get into fights all the time, I guess it could be ok. There is a saying on here to always "fake it till you make it" which I guess could work. Its more important to have the ****y attitude through words in your ad than to have it in real life when you meet the girl. Just basically write the meanest, most chauvinistic things you can think of in your ad that would get you slapped or fired in real life. You want to be the guy who makes waves, not the guy who blends in.

PM me when you get a minute.
 

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I don't think I'm not attractive, I just know I don't have model good looks. Face and body combined I'm about a 6.5 maybe 7. When I reach my goal weight by adding about 15 pounds of muscle I'll be an 7.5. I'm only 5'6 so I can never mention my height.

LOL write stuff that would get me slapped in real life. That's pretty crazy. Sure you don't have to act that way IRL if you meet the girl?
 

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As a joke I once put an ad on craigslist that basically implied (skillfully, and realistically) that I was very rich from a wealthy family, and that I was trying to find girls that were not golddiggers and money wasn't a factor, so that way they could like me for me.
....dudes, SO MANY girls emailed me... REAL ONES. hahahaha sometimes girls make me want to *facepalm*... eh it was funny though. All their responses were like "I dont care about money at all, but lets just see where things go."


...Speaking of which, I did put another ad up whining about how girls only care about and use me for my REALLY BIG C0CK! hahaha, once again, i never would've thought they would take it serious, but i got emails again. Not as many..
But one girl responded that it was funny, she knew I was joking, she was the only one. So we started talking. She ended up being a swimmer for a college team, fvcked her while her bf was out town.. so who knows... Forgot all about that stuff, that was awhile ago. :D
 
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