"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ayn Rand DJing?

Flabbergasped?

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I don't know if any of you have read "The Fountainhead", but lately I've been seeing some Howard Roark pimps out there. These guys are blunt, straight-forward, and painfully honest, but it seems to work because they have no fear of rejection (since objectivism is all about not giving a **** about anything). In a strange way, these Howard Roarks are the ultimate form of Don Juanism, except they are so stoic that it's hard to tell whether they really know what they're doing or not.

Has anyone encountered this? I've tried not caring at all, and it's been great with the ladies. :rock:

For more on "The Fountainhead"/Howard Roark, consult this.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Objectivist_philosophy

"My philosophy, in essence, is the concept of man as a heroic being, with his own happiness as the moral purpose of his life, with productive achievement as his noblest activity, and reason as his only absolute."

The quote above sort of sums up the kind of mindset I'm referring to
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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There's a better DJ in Rand's work "Atlas Shrugged." It's the guy with the foreign name.
 

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"because they have no fear of rejection"

Why not dj with no fear of rejection?
 

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Dude, ever since I stopped giving a ****, I've noticed atleast a threefold success. Don't give a **** what other people think about you because it's your world, not theres.
 

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this is actually a very fascinating thread

i'll take a look at the link in a bit (im on a slow hospital computer) but i do remember seeing a bruce willis film in which he and this kinda nerdy guy break from jail. he's like the craziest confident resiliant smooth guy ever and i was really fascinated by it. i think we should post movies and books in which the characters show good examples of dj additude so some of the struggling afcs on this board can get a real feel for how these guys think and act while we point out the stuff that really makes them different.

EDIT: btw the movie is called 'bandit' and heres a link about it
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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