"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ayn Rand DJing?

Flabbergasped?

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I don't know if any of you have read "The Fountainhead", but lately I've been seeing some Howard Roark pimps out there. These guys are blunt, straight-forward, and painfully honest, but it seems to work because they have no fear of rejection (since objectivism is all about not giving a **** about anything). In a strange way, these Howard Roarks are the ultimate form of Don Juanism, except they are so stoic that it's hard to tell whether they really know what they're doing or not.

Has anyone encountered this? I've tried not caring at all, and it's been great with the ladies. :rock:

For more on "The Fountainhead"/Howard Roark, consult this.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Objectivist_philosophy

"My philosophy, in essence, is the concept of man as a heroic being, with his own happiness as the moral purpose of his life, with productive achievement as his noblest activity, and reason as his only absolute."

The quote above sort of sums up the kind of mindset I'm referring to
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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There's a better DJ in Rand's work "Atlas Shrugged." It's the guy with the foreign name.
 

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"because they have no fear of rejection"

Why not dj with no fear of rejection?
 

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Dude, ever since I stopped giving a ****, I've noticed atleast a threefold success. Don't give a **** what other people think about you because it's your world, not theres.
 

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this is actually a very fascinating thread

i'll take a look at the link in a bit (im on a slow hospital computer) but i do remember seeing a bruce willis film in which he and this kinda nerdy guy break from jail. he's like the craziest confident resiliant smooth guy ever and i was really fascinated by it. i think we should post movies and books in which the characters show good examples of dj additude so some of the struggling afcs on this board can get a real feel for how these guys think and act while we point out the stuff that really makes them different.

EDIT: btw the movie is called 'bandit' and heres a link about it
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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