"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ayn Rand DJing?

Flabbergasped?

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I don't know if any of you have read "The Fountainhead", but lately I've been seeing some Howard Roark pimps out there. These guys are blunt, straight-forward, and painfully honest, but it seems to work because they have no fear of rejection (since objectivism is all about not giving a **** about anything). In a strange way, these Howard Roarks are the ultimate form of Don Juanism, except they are so stoic that it's hard to tell whether they really know what they're doing or not.

Has anyone encountered this? I've tried not caring at all, and it's been great with the ladies. :rock:

For more on "The Fountainhead"/Howard Roark, consult this.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Objectivist_philosophy

"My philosophy, in essence, is the concept of man as a heroic being, with his own happiness as the moral purpose of his life, with productive achievement as his noblest activity, and reason as his only absolute."

The quote above sort of sums up the kind of mindset I'm referring to
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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There's a better DJ in Rand's work "Atlas Shrugged." It's the guy with the foreign name.
 

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"because they have no fear of rejection"

Why not dj with no fear of rejection?
 

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Dude, ever since I stopped giving a ****, I've noticed atleast a threefold success. Don't give a **** what other people think about you because it's your world, not theres.
 

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this is actually a very fascinating thread

i'll take a look at the link in a bit (im on a slow hospital computer) but i do remember seeing a bruce willis film in which he and this kinda nerdy guy break from jail. he's like the craziest confident resiliant smooth guy ever and i was really fascinated by it. i think we should post movies and books in which the characters show good examples of dj additude so some of the struggling afcs on this board can get a real feel for how these guys think and act while we point out the stuff that really makes them different.

EDIT: btw the movie is called 'bandit' and heres a link about it
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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