Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Haha, yeah.. You're totally right bro!Shiftkey said:Le Parisien, while the advice that guy gave was sh1tty, it IS possible to approach any woman and pick her up if your game is good enough. The key is to do what most guys don't, which is pretty much the opposite of what the guy in the video did lol
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Le Parisien said:Lol...:crackup:
The last part was awesome: "FVCK OFF!"![]()
What did he expect? No previous eye contact, not the slightest gauge of interest level.
I never buy into the "just do it", "just walk over there and pick them up" bullsh*t. I mean if it was that easy and only takes "courage", most guys would be getting laid by HBs...all the time....
By the way, after the "Angelus incident", I tend to give much much less credibility to the "unbelievably" field reports given here. For all I know, their "I just walked up to the HB and fluff talked and I kinoed a lot and we slept with her that very night" might be some keyboard jockeys just talking the talk so he can "make a point"...:crackup:
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Which makes it perfect for the Anything Else forum!Mitch_Mustain said:while there was nothing to be learned from this...the whole thing was like a big long joke which ended with "**** OFF!"" ha ha! clever
More importantly, no attraction. Rapport without attraction breeds the friend zone.SELF-MASTERY said:no rapport