"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Awesome Pickup Video !!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Lol...:crackup:
The last part was awesome: "FVCK OFF!"
What did he expect? No previous eye contact, not the slightest gauge of interest level.
I never buy into the "just do it", "just walk over there and pick them up" bullsh*t. I mean if it was that easy and only takes "courage", most guys would be getting laid by HBs...all the time....
By the way, after the "Angelus incident", I tend to give much much less credibility to the "unbelievably" field reports given here. For all I know, their "I just walked up to the HB and fluff talked and I kinoed a lot and we slept with her that very night" might be some keyboard jockeys just talking the talk so he can "make a point"...:crackup:
The last part was awesome: "FVCK OFF!"
What did he expect? No previous eye contact, not the slightest gauge of interest level.
I never buy into the "just do it", "just walk over there and pick them up" bullsh*t. I mean if it was that easy and only takes "courage", most guys would be getting laid by HBs...all the time....
By the way, after the "Angelus incident", I tend to give much much less credibility to the "unbelievably" field reports given here. For all I know, their "I just walked up to the HB and fluff talked and I kinoed a lot and we slept with her that very night" might be some keyboard jockeys just talking the talk so he can "make a point"...:crackup:
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
Le Parisien, while the advice that guy gave was sh1tty, it IS possible to approach any woman and pick her up if your game is good enough. The key is to do what most guys don't, which is pretty much the opposite of what the guy in the video did lol
I've recently been reading up on Mystery Method, and I haven't field tested it yet, but it seems legit. You should check it out. I've absorbed pretty much everything this forum has to offer, and while I'm a hell of a lot better than I was before I came here, just reading Mystery's book made me realize how much I have to learn.
I've recently been reading up on Mystery Method, and I haven't field tested it yet, but it seems legit. You should check it out. I've absorbed pretty much everything this forum has to offer, and while I'm a hell of a lot better than I was before I came here, just reading Mystery's book made me realize how much I have to learn.
OfficeSpace
Master Don Juan
Haha, yeah.. You're totally right bro!Shiftkey said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
typical
Master Don Juan
Talking to a girl aint friggen hard as most of them have been brainwashed y mtv, so its like talkng to a little girl .............. anyways lets cut to the point.
You go up to a girl talk a bit, you gotta work out if there is anything similar between the two of you, if there aint then good f'n luck in nailing her (screw the opposites attract bs)
You find something similar to talk about fluff talk it up then slowly turn the converastion to what she does and waht she likes blah blah blah .......... you now know where I'm going, more often then not if you can get to this point you'll at least end up with a kiss.
Now me I've only a few times been able to pick a girl up on the spot and banged her that night yea its easy at bars and clubs guards are lowered in them places, but picking a girl up in broad daylight aint easy, most girls I get with are either lab partners at uni or in lectures etc but it takes a few conversations to get to that point and ya gotta be careful not to get thrown into the friends zone which trust me man happens alot.
But most of the time I cant be stuffed talking to or trying to pickup girls I got way too much sh!t to do, if one does happen to come along then bam I'm in LOL
Edit: Something Ive noticed as I*ve gotten older/ more mature alot of girls have the impression that guys are simple creatures yet they cant god damn hold a convo up for more then 5 minutes ugggghh put some effort in ladies getting all preetyu and sh!t is cool but god damn dont bore me when ya talk, or at least just stop the whole coverup job and just gimme a ******* so I can get on with other things LOL
You go up to a girl talk a bit, you gotta work out if there is anything similar between the two of you, if there aint then good f'n luck in nailing her (screw the opposites attract bs)
You find something similar to talk about fluff talk it up then slowly turn the converastion to what she does and waht she likes blah blah blah .......... you now know where I'm going, more often then not if you can get to this point you'll at least end up with a kiss.
Now me I've only a few times been able to pick a girl up on the spot and banged her that night yea its easy at bars and clubs guards are lowered in them places, but picking a girl up in broad daylight aint easy, most girls I get with are either lab partners at uni or in lectures etc but it takes a few conversations to get to that point and ya gotta be careful not to get thrown into the friends zone which trust me man happens alot.
But most of the time I cant be stuffed talking to or trying to pickup girls I got way too much sh!t to do, if one does happen to come along then bam I'm in LOL
Edit: Something Ive noticed as I*ve gotten older/ more mature alot of girls have the impression that guys are simple creatures yet they cant god damn hold a convo up for more then 5 minutes ugggghh put some effort in ladies getting all preetyu and sh!t is cool but god damn dont bore me when ya talk, or at least just stop the whole coverup job and just gimme a ******* so I can get on with other things LOL
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Le Parisien said:Lol...:crackup:
The last part was awesome: "FVCK OFF!"
What did he expect? No previous eye contact, not the slightest gauge of interest level.
I never buy into the "just do it", "just walk over there and pick them up" bullsh*t. I mean if it was that easy and only takes "courage", most guys would be getting laid by HBs...all the time....
By the way, after the "Angelus incident", I tend to give much much less credibility to the "unbelievably" field reports given here. For all I know, their "I just walked up to the HB and fluff talked and I kinoed a lot and we slept with her that very night" might be some keyboard jockeys just talking the talk so he can "make a point"...:crackup:
You doubt others because you doubt yourself...
Mitch_Mustain
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while there was nothing to be learned from this...the whole thing was like a big long joke which ended with "**** OFF!"" ha ha! clever
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Sounds like a mix of all the newbie advice around here, plus a hint of Krassus with that "she's the love of your life" crap. Then add a dash of a$$hole, a sprinkle of gullibility, and BAM! You have a game-killing molotov ****tail of lame.
Its so bad, its good. Pretty funny, actually.
Its so bad, its good. Pretty funny, actually.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
Which makes it perfect for the Anything Else forum!Mitch_Mustain said:
More importantly, no attraction. Rapport without attraction breeds the friend zone.SELF-MASTERY said: