"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Awesome Pickup Video !!
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Lol...:crackup:
The last part was awesome: "FVCK OFF!"
What did he expect? No previous eye contact, not the slightest gauge of interest level.
I never buy into the "just do it", "just walk over there and pick them up" bullsh*t. I mean if it was that easy and only takes "courage", most guys would be getting laid by HBs...all the time....
By the way, after the "Angelus incident", I tend to give much much less credibility to the "unbelievably" field reports given here. For all I know, their "I just walked up to the HB and fluff talked and I kinoed a lot and we slept with her that very night" might be some keyboard jockeys just talking the talk so he can "make a point"...:crackup:
The last part was awesome: "FVCK OFF!"
What did he expect? No previous eye contact, not the slightest gauge of interest level.
I never buy into the "just do it", "just walk over there and pick them up" bullsh*t. I mean if it was that easy and only takes "courage", most guys would be getting laid by HBs...all the time....
By the way, after the "Angelus incident", I tend to give much much less credibility to the "unbelievably" field reports given here. For all I know, their "I just walked up to the HB and fluff talked and I kinoed a lot and we slept with her that very night" might be some keyboard jockeys just talking the talk so he can "make a point"...:crackup:
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
Le Parisien, while the advice that guy gave was sh1tty, it IS possible to approach any woman and pick her up if your game is good enough. The key is to do what most guys don't, which is pretty much the opposite of what the guy in the video did lol
I've recently been reading up on Mystery Method, and I haven't field tested it yet, but it seems legit. You should check it out. I've absorbed pretty much everything this forum has to offer, and while I'm a hell of a lot better than I was before I came here, just reading Mystery's book made me realize how much I have to learn.
I've recently been reading up on Mystery Method, and I haven't field tested it yet, but it seems legit. You should check it out. I've absorbed pretty much everything this forum has to offer, and while I'm a hell of a lot better than I was before I came here, just reading Mystery's book made me realize how much I have to learn.
OfficeSpace
Master Don Juan
Haha, yeah.. You're totally right bro!Shiftkey said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
typical
Master Don Juan
Talking to a girl aint friggen hard as most of them have been brainwashed y mtv, so its like talkng to a little girl .............. anyways lets cut to the point.
You go up to a girl talk a bit, you gotta work out if there is anything similar between the two of you, if there aint then good f'n luck in nailing her (screw the opposites attract bs)
You find something similar to talk about fluff talk it up then slowly turn the converastion to what she does and waht she likes blah blah blah .......... you now know where I'm going, more often then not if you can get to this point you'll at least end up with a kiss.
Now me I've only a few times been able to pick a girl up on the spot and banged her that night yea its easy at bars and clubs guards are lowered in them places, but picking a girl up in broad daylight aint easy, most girls I get with are either lab partners at uni or in lectures etc but it takes a few conversations to get to that point and ya gotta be careful not to get thrown into the friends zone which trust me man happens alot.
But most of the time I cant be stuffed talking to or trying to pickup girls I got way too much sh!t to do, if one does happen to come along then bam I'm in LOL
Edit: Something Ive noticed as I*ve gotten older/ more mature alot of girls have the impression that guys are simple creatures yet they cant god damn hold a convo up for more then 5 minutes ugggghh put some effort in ladies getting all preetyu and sh!t is cool but god damn dont bore me when ya talk, or at least just stop the whole coverup job and just gimme a ******* so I can get on with other things LOL
You go up to a girl talk a bit, you gotta work out if there is anything similar between the two of you, if there aint then good f'n luck in nailing her (screw the opposites attract bs)
You find something similar to talk about fluff talk it up then slowly turn the converastion to what she does and waht she likes blah blah blah .......... you now know where I'm going, more often then not if you can get to this point you'll at least end up with a kiss.
Now me I've only a few times been able to pick a girl up on the spot and banged her that night yea its easy at bars and clubs guards are lowered in them places, but picking a girl up in broad daylight aint easy, most girls I get with are either lab partners at uni or in lectures etc but it takes a few conversations to get to that point and ya gotta be careful not to get thrown into the friends zone which trust me man happens alot.
But most of the time I cant be stuffed talking to or trying to pickup girls I got way too much sh!t to do, if one does happen to come along then bam I'm in LOL
Edit: Something Ive noticed as I*ve gotten older/ more mature alot of girls have the impression that guys are simple creatures yet they cant god damn hold a convo up for more then 5 minutes ugggghh put some effort in ladies getting all preetyu and sh!t is cool but god damn dont bore me when ya talk, or at least just stop the whole coverup job and just gimme a ******* so I can get on with other things LOL
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Le Parisien said:Lol...:crackup:
The last part was awesome: "FVCK OFF!"
What did he expect? No previous eye contact, not the slightest gauge of interest level.
I never buy into the "just do it", "just walk over there and pick them up" bullsh*t. I mean if it was that easy and only takes "courage", most guys would be getting laid by HBs...all the time....
By the way, after the "Angelus incident", I tend to give much much less credibility to the "unbelievably" field reports given here. For all I know, their "I just walked up to the HB and fluff talked and I kinoed a lot and we slept with her that very night" might be some keyboard jockeys just talking the talk so he can "make a point"...:crackup:
You doubt others because you doubt yourself...
Mitch_Mustain
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while there was nothing to be learned from this...the whole thing was like a big long joke which ended with "**** OFF!"" ha ha! clever
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Sounds like a mix of all the newbie advice around here, plus a hint of Krassus with that "she's the love of your life" crap. Then add a dash of a$$hole, a sprinkle of gullibility, and BAM! You have a game-killing molotov ****tail of lame.
Its so bad, its good. Pretty funny, actually.
Its so bad, its good. Pretty funny, actually.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
Which makes it perfect for the Anything Else forum!Mitch_Mustain said:
More importantly, no attraction. Rapport without attraction breeds the friend zone.SELF-MASTERY said: