Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Haha, yeah.. You're totally right bro!Shiftkey said:Le Parisien, while the advice that guy gave was sh1tty, it IS possible to approach any woman and pick her up if your game is good enough. The key is to do what most guys don't, which is pretty much the opposite of what the guy in the video did lol
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Le Parisien said:Lol...:crackup:
The last part was awesome: "FVCK OFF!"![]()
What did he expect? No previous eye contact, not the slightest gauge of interest level.
I never buy into the "just do it", "just walk over there and pick them up" bullsh*t. I mean if it was that easy and only takes "courage", most guys would be getting laid by HBs...all the time....
By the way, after the "Angelus incident", I tend to give much much less credibility to the "unbelievably" field reports given here. For all I know, their "I just walked up to the HB and fluff talked and I kinoed a lot and we slept with her that very night" might be some keyboard jockeys just talking the talk so he can "make a point"...:crackup:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Which makes it perfect for the Anything Else forum!Mitch_Mustain said:while there was nothing to be learned from this...the whole thing was like a big long joke which ended with "**** OFF!"" ha ha! clever
More importantly, no attraction. Rapport without attraction breeds the friend zone.SELF-MASTERY said:no rapport