Hey guys yeah my date bailed on me and my backup date already got taken. I have two weeks before prom. What the hell do I do. I need a date bad, but Im not just trying to walk up to random girls going hey want to go to prom with me. I'm kind of stuck right now, any advice?:kick:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Aw **** freaking out b4 prom
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Five To One
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I went to two dances with girls I had barely talked to before. Both times I had a great time with the girl, and one of the girls I even got intimate with because of it. Try stepping out of your comfort zone and ask a girl who is a bit unknown to you. Just be friendly and assertive and it will be a good time for the both of you.
If not then go with a couple guy friends. Its not that big of a deal because once you get to the dance its not like your date will hang by your side. I shared maybe 4 dances with my date this past week and the rest of the time I was with other people.
If not then go with a couple guy friends. Its not that big of a deal because once you get to the dance its not like your date will hang by your side. I shared maybe 4 dances with my date this past week and the rest of the time I was with other people.
eaglez1177
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Just get to know some of the girls that are a year or two younger than you. Ex: sophs and freshmen ALWAYS want to go to prom with an older guy.
Legit all you have to do is just become like acquaitances with them and if u ask they will def go wit u
Legit all you have to do is just become like acquaitances with them and if u ask they will def go wit u
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what I want to know is, how do you have a blast without a date at prom? Most girls here HAVE to have a date. So i doubt there will be any girls to just ask to dance, without them ditching their date.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
eaglez1177
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Dont go without a date. You'll look like a COMPLETE loser. Trust me. Everyone else is gonna have dates with them.