Hey guys yeah my date bailed on me and my backup date already got taken. I have two weeks before prom. What the hell do I do. I need a date bad, but Im not just trying to walk up to random girls going hey want to go to prom with me. I'm kind of stuck right now, any advice?:kick:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Aw **** freaking out b4 prom
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Five To One
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I went to two dances with girls I had barely talked to before. Both times I had a great time with the girl, and one of the girls I even got intimate with because of it. Try stepping out of your comfort zone and ask a girl who is a bit unknown to you. Just be friendly and assertive and it will be a good time for the both of you.
If not then go with a couple guy friends. Its not that big of a deal because once you get to the dance its not like your date will hang by your side. I shared maybe 4 dances with my date this past week and the rest of the time I was with other people.
If not then go with a couple guy friends. Its not that big of a deal because once you get to the dance its not like your date will hang by your side. I shared maybe 4 dances with my date this past week and the rest of the time I was with other people.
eaglez1177
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Just get to know some of the girls that are a year or two younger than you. Ex: sophs and freshmen ALWAYS want to go to prom with an older guy.
Legit all you have to do is just become like acquaitances with them and if u ask they will def go wit u
Legit all you have to do is just become like acquaitances with them and if u ask they will def go wit u
PrinceKong
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what I want to know is, how do you have a blast without a date at prom? Most girls here HAVE to have a date. So i doubt there will be any girls to just ask to dance, without them ditching their date.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
eaglez1177
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Dont go without a date. You'll look like a COMPLETE loser. Trust me. Everyone else is gonna have dates with them.