Hey guys yeah my date bailed on me and my backup date already got taken. I have two weeks before prom. What the hell do I do. I need a date bad, but Im not just trying to walk up to random girls going hey want to go to prom with me. I'm kind of stuck right now, any advice?:kick:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Aw **** freaking out b4 prom
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Five To One
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I went to two dances with girls I had barely talked to before. Both times I had a great time with the girl, and one of the girls I even got intimate with because of it. Try stepping out of your comfort zone and ask a girl who is a bit unknown to you. Just be friendly and assertive and it will be a good time for the both of you.
If not then go with a couple guy friends. Its not that big of a deal because once you get to the dance its not like your date will hang by your side. I shared maybe 4 dances with my date this past week and the rest of the time I was with other people.
If not then go with a couple guy friends. Its not that big of a deal because once you get to the dance its not like your date will hang by your side. I shared maybe 4 dances with my date this past week and the rest of the time I was with other people.
eaglez1177
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Just get to know some of the girls that are a year or two younger than you. Ex: sophs and freshmen ALWAYS want to go to prom with an older guy.
Legit all you have to do is just become like acquaitances with them and if u ask they will def go wit u
Legit all you have to do is just become like acquaitances with them and if u ask they will def go wit u
PrinceKong
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what I want to know is, how do you have a blast without a date at prom? Most girls here HAVE to have a date. So i doubt there will be any girls to just ask to dance, without them ditching their date.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
eaglez1177
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Dont go without a date. You'll look like a COMPLETE loser. Trust me. Everyone else is gonna have dates with them.