Hey guys yeah my date bailed on me and my backup date already got taken. I have two weeks before prom. What the hell do I do. I need a date bad, but Im not just trying to walk up to random girls going hey want to go to prom with me. I'm kind of stuck right now, any advice?:kick:
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Aw **** freaking out b4 prom
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Five To One
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I went to two dances with girls I had barely talked to before. Both times I had a great time with the girl, and one of the girls I even got intimate with because of it. Try stepping out of your comfort zone and ask a girl who is a bit unknown to you. Just be friendly and assertive and it will be a good time for the both of you.
If not then go with a couple guy friends. Its not that big of a deal because once you get to the dance its not like your date will hang by your side. I shared maybe 4 dances with my date this past week and the rest of the time I was with other people.
If not then go with a couple guy friends. Its not that big of a deal because once you get to the dance its not like your date will hang by your side. I shared maybe 4 dances with my date this past week and the rest of the time I was with other people.
eaglez1177
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Just get to know some of the girls that are a year or two younger than you. Ex: sophs and freshmen ALWAYS want to go to prom with an older guy.
Legit all you have to do is just become like acquaitances with them and if u ask they will def go wit u
Legit all you have to do is just become like acquaitances with them and if u ask they will def go wit u
PrinceKong
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what I want to know is, how do you have a blast without a date at prom? Most girls here HAVE to have a date. So i doubt there will be any girls to just ask to dance, without them ditching their date.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
eaglez1177
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Dont go without a date. You'll look like a COMPLETE loser. Trust me. Everyone else is gonna have dates with them.