"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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average size with stomach.

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I am 5'11 185 pounds. regular built. the only thing is I have a stomach I want to get rid of. I already have a good diet and workout. I am using the stomach vaccume now, but would more cardio help out enough?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Your diet and workout isn't as good as you think if you have a gut. Post it up.
 

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meal 1- fat free chese, 3 scoops protein with milk.

meal 2- 2 protein bars

meal 3- sirlone stake, salad (without dressing) and baked potato.

meal 4- protein bar, cereal

meal 5- 3 scoops protein with milk

45 minutes of cardio and I train muscles good.

I always had a gut after high school, it prb got too big to be completely gone.
 

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Your diet needs a lot of work, start with the simple starting diet and build from there, post up your lifting routine
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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