"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think male attractiveness and female attractiveness is much different.

It's easy enough to know which women are more attractive than others; even though opinion and taste play a role, there still seems to be a "scale" (1-10) on which there is vague agreement.

In men there seem to only be three categories:
  1. Attractive enough for women to overlook bad things;
  2. Unattractive enough for women to ignore good things;
  3. The vast middle, where women will find you attractive or unattractive based on factors other than your looks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I think you´re on to something.

When in LTRs, if you are at the top of your girl´s list, she will never cheat or branch swing and will overlook bad things about you.
 

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I think you´re on to something.

When in LTRs, if you are at the top of your girl´s list, she will never cheat or branch swing and will overlook bad things about you.
Until she tests ur frame....

Then she loses all attraction.
 

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I guess it all depends. I have had a IDGAF attitude lately most of the time in my LTR (2+ years now) and GF seems hotter for me now than during the honeymoon phase of the relationship. She can´t get enough of my d1ck.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Agree with those three. Vast middle is dominant experience. Depends heavily on her relative attractiveness and idiosyncratic physical ideal.
LARaiders, I've been thinking abt people with the expressive personality such as you.

You'll make an excellent candidate for a chit chat.

I'll gather my thoughts and look you up.
 
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